Dhobi Ghat... The hole and the whole....

 Dedicated to my ardent fan Prayas and Rashmi who insisted they wait for my blog...


If ever given a choice  and somebody ask me what job will entice me in my next birth ...my reply will be...
:A washman...
:But why??
:Becoz cleaning is my favourite hobby.!!

 I think this wish of mine will be highly applauded  by the present govt as it somehow resonate  with"Swatch Bharat"mission!!
..
:Swatch Bharat and Swatch dhobi ghat..

Cleaning /Discipline / changes are these slogans that cost few crorors  to reach out to people (in election campaign) 2% taxes ..

  How is it if I become a dhobi to wash  and clean the mindset of those who just see"a hole to be the whole"

Everyone talk about a "Swatch Bharat"
But how can there be a swatch Bharat without "a Swatch Mind??


    Coming august I am invited to lecture on a seminar on "Woman empowerment at a prestigious University  abroad" and I am just wondering from where do I pick the pebbles..

How difficult is for me to explain how my country is hurriedly marching towards swatch mission without  an iota of insight to real ground work !!

Wish today's Budget  would include free distribution of a kinda washing machines that  washs off those dirty minds ...


Minds.... Dirty minds... That function to tiltiate and troll a woman who has her own mind and does not believe in  unholy entertainment!!

Dirty mind that engage  and indulge to look at even a child.. a baby and object of lust..

Dirty mind that exisibit .. applause and excuse feudal male harakiri as heroism!!

Dirty minds that dictate few to be extremely empathetic  towards their own and treat others like garbage..

Dirty minds that is in constant search for stale opinion.. and is guided by just rush..

Dirty minds that teaches to sabotage a colleague at your office who proceed you..

Dirty mind that breed utter selfishness and direct you to lick the feet of only haves..

Dirty minds that don't teaches virtues like empathy. Kindness.. greatfulness..

Dirty mind that see woman as a hole of entertainment but not as a whole entity...

Dirty minds that dnt teaches you how to respect..

Our nature..
Our surroundings..
Our elders...

What are we doing to the planet with plastic and garbadges..!!

Dirty minds that transform you from human to beast..

I really am eager to erase those prescriptive  checklists with a throbbing spirit  that always  creat doubt on a successful humans sincerity and credential..

I want to thrash those perverts of both gender who have not learned to see a woman beyond the anatomy...and a man beyond money and gain!!


My last blog reads a comments  from a brother or mine whov vent on those women whov always see man as a trophy mobile ATM.. .!! Right??Yes this breed is increasing!!

Some  fb scroll made me read the story  of a Mexican girl who's forced  and kidnapped  till she's rescued of.. 28..300 thousand violation IN just few years in Mexico!!

How come the tiny particlecalked the brain don't understand  talent  are no gender specific.


The world is still not a safe place for those who are not armed by either power or money or experts in mud throwing game!!

   Last year an honorable  exminister of opposition  in my state gave a reference  to a married lady accomplised Minister at the centre as mistress of the higher  authority!! Shameful!!

Time has come to admit  and acknowledge women toppers IN exam.. in space.. The bright graph of success... the super woman who juggle home and office.. home and business..both...

On one hand people talk tall  on woman empowerment  and on the other hand  the poor tendency  to  doubt  and stalk every moment of her to color with  horrible stories..

It's OK,  if you are an eternal prud  and literally uncivilised¡
Bit it's not OK if you  try damadge images at a regular basis!!

No woman escape dirty  branding.... Majority of of women abstain from Politics for the fear of branding.. pushing and shoving unless backed by stout family tree!!Few are spared of shadowed by guarded trophy husband!!!

   I always believe in. "you are what you think""

The thought the mind that direct a perpetrator to pounce on kinds.. even dogs and cows somewhere are not seen spared..

Sigh!!  Wish I could suck  out the dirtiness the venom from mind with a vacuum cleaner!!
How a normal people should  try understand  someone?? By their virtue!!  Right??
But in actual sense how they do judge??

By outer  appearance  right??
Your Prime Minister  My Chief Minister all are Bachelor's...

Nobody dare nurture the dirty thought that..

"How come they  survive without  a wife??" You dnt judge them with curiosity  but you will troll over and over  a woman  who's  self sufficiency arouse your curiosity..


How do you define richness.??

My late Granny who's a night bird traveller and a mother of 14 children a royale breed  often defined richness with generosity!!
I heard stories from my mom how enviably  she used to guard her children and bungalow in the teagarden with a licensed air gun at night from thief !! A widow !!An empowered widow  in sixty seventies!! No-one dared question her diplomacy!!  She was rich and empowered but the same peer didn't spare the first movie actress in Assam.. "Aidew Handique "Socially octriched Her for addressing a stranger "Bongohordew " means her man!!

    Same  sample of mindset  travelled through  decade  in certain families!!  From generation  to generation  families saw progress without civilization!!!
Rich by wealth
Not in mind!!

One breed of People reached Mars and moon and this breed kept  arousing with stereo.. mysoginistic thought!!


I really wish to be that washman.. dhobi...to cleanse the minds with costly detergent.. To establish an egalitarian sociey,  otherwise I see no option left..

Even family.. glory ,education  have miserably failed to teach what the mind needs to be tought!!

Here we follow and respect Power! Not Virtue!!
Here we rub shoulder  with  the haves without  caring  his karma's..
Here we invest on empowerment  but keep  doubting virtues!!

The mind is the evil.. The saddist and the saddest who dnt deferentiate.. right or wrong!!
Good or Bad!!

No matter how you hold your latest brand of iPhone or your latest brand of prized possession..

No matter how keen on you to upload your bookish knowledge or exisibit your success stories pompously IN face book pages like a maniac..

No matter how loud is your extravegenza..

No matter how many stamp you have collected in your passport... or how many countries you see in your lifetime..

People like my breed will determine your class and progress by your action as action speak  louder than your words..

Your action will reflect your mind!!
And your mind reflect are you really a human or a four legged beast!!!

The mind that teaches you that emotion is a weak virtue.. being good to others is foolishness... being outrageous and manipulative is the new -age definition of being practical and smart..

Then I would say you are miles away from enlightenment...

There might be heads to be charmed  by  your manipulation..

You might feel the mightiest holding the trophy you exisibit..

I still pray and wish to be a dhobi in my next birth to easily wash off the thoughts from those minds that's shaping hollowness without any apologistic gesture ...thats shaking the edifice of our civility.. that forbade us to be treated as equals... that indulge us in war and battles... that's overpowering us with negativity!!!I hold the light of those beautiful minds who have inspired me and many to believe in self  and freedom of expression!!

My Gandhian father showed us simplicity  as the wealthiest way to  build ourselves.. He is gone... but his teachings remain intact in my tiny heart..I was never treated as gender but as mighty individual at home..!!

The journey of unflinched honesty is tough.. but this is the only way I know to stay alive¡!

So is the wish and my funny/dry/simple/crisp midnight blog!!!!

Make pace and  make a place for a better beautiful world with beautiful minds that know no age no gender no caste and no creed no religion.!!
Every  little positive change begins and ends with the mind.. Isn't it???

The body will decay... The mind will travel with the soul in a lights speed.....